These past few days in class we have spoken about the "bubble method". This method is helpful to enhance a conversion by taking it to another level as opposed to a simple conversation with no meaning behind it. We also did an exercise which consisted of turning around to face your partner and use the method to practice and be able to do the same outside of class. During break i was able to sit with some of my friends and apply this to our conversations. They ended up being more productive and i found myself agreeing with them.
I started our conversation by asking what was their viewpoint on birth. Instead of separately asking people I decided to make a circle. i had my friends jenee, Stanley, Steven and Taylor. when it came down to what they viewed birth as everyone agreed it was a beautiful process. the person who seemed more realistic with their opinion was my friend jenee because even though she agreed she also mentioned, " this process has its ups like it has its downs." A big topic that took place in this convo was money. Having a baby requires a lot of money. There is so much that needs to be spent on, clothes, diapers, wipers, food, etc.
To be pregnant is a great thing but only if you have stability in your life. Some women know that having a baby isn't the best thing when their relationship with their boyfriend or husband is going down the drain but some think that by having a baby it will trap them. In some cases this will work, in some it won't, and in others it will start off good then end bad or the other way around. Then there are the kind of women that don't have their life together and decide to have a child to get welfare. What they don't realize is that not only are they not providing a good environment for the baby but that welfare money isn't enough to raise a child. a baby requires lots of care and nurturing. Teenagers now a day's getting pregnant unfortunately have to end their education and drop out of college to be able to take care of the child. but, what is there to offer to the child if you can't finish your education. Sources where my friends were sharing their perspective from and getting their info from were from clinics, health class, and our surroundings or environment. NOISE! That's one thing my friend said when I asked what came to her mind when she thought about babies. I personally found that pretty funny because its true they cry a lot at first. Friends who said they wouldn't have a baby also said that if they were to have a baby then they would make sure to have a stable life first and be able to offer the kid a steady life instead of doing something stupid.
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